Spring is a such a crazy time for most families. It's the time of year for dance and piano recitals, sports banquets, end-of-the-year school projects, track and soccer practices, graduation parties, state swim meets, etc, etc, etc.
Basically we're trying to cram as much into the calendar as possible before summer arrives.
All the activities tend to wreck havoc on a writer's schedule . . . at least they do on mine!
When things start to get crazy, I have to be careful not to let my emotions get crazy. It's all too easy to start snapping at everyone and to have major pity parties about how little I'm getting done.
As a work-from-home mom, I constantly find myself challenged to balance work and mom duties. Obviously I don't want to short-change my family. I want to be available to them. I want to give them my best. But I also want to give my work my best too. I want to work hard. And I want to put one hundred percent into my writing.
The balance between work and family is a constant tug-of-war.
Although I do fall into the woe-is-me trap, I've also learned to "cheat" to find more work time.
Here are just a few ways I cheat to get in more work:
1. Listen to audio books.
I firmly believe writers must be voracious readers. We learn an incredible amount about story-telling and writing techniques from studying what others are doing.
But if we're having trouble finding writing time, how can we possibly squeeze in time for reading widely and deeply?
Audio books have been a godsend for me. I have a membership with Audible.com which allows me to download books onto my Audible app on my iphone with the mere click of a button. Within a minute (or less) I can be listening to ANY book I want.
I listen in the car while driving kids to activities. I listen when I'm getting dinner ready. I listen while I'm putting on my makeup in the morning. And while I'm listening, I'm constantly analyzing and evaluating the stories, and thus working.
2. Listen to writing podcasts.
In addition to listening to audio books on my phone, I also download writing podcasts and listen to those as I go about life. I keep note cards and a pencil handy while I'm listening so that I can take notes to remember and review techniques.
I've found several podcasts that are particularly informative and practical:
Yes, the TV does go on in my house. I admit, I have a couple of favorite shows. And I watch movies from time to time.
I've learned that I can watch those shows and sneak in some social media browsing simultaneously. While viewing, I'm able to flip through Pinterest pictures or glance at Facebook updates. During commercials, I can make blog comments or write a quick email.
It's an easy way to multi-task (and makes me feel less guilty about watching TV!).
Obviously, I can't rely on the "cheating" to get quality writing done. I have to purposely plan or set aside time for that. And when life is busy, inevitably the busyness begins to cut into my writing time.
But I really like this quote by JK Rowling. "Be RUTHLESS about protecting writing days."
That's something I strive to live by. I try guard my writing time jealously. I let family and friends know my scheduled work time. I don't plan other events or activities for those writing days.
I aim high with my ruthlessness. And while I fall short some days, overall the ruthless protection holds me in good stead.
What about you? How do you "cheat" to find more work time? Are you ruthless enough about protecting your writing days?